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The Heart-Centered Connector: Breaking Free from the Pleaser Pattern

• Tabitha MacDonald • Episode 56

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Today we explore the journey of Amara, a natural helper who discovers the path from exhaustive giving to heart-centered leadership. Through a powerful dream sequence, Amara confronts her people-pleasing tendencies and embraces her authentic self as a soul guide.

• The story begins with Amara, whose empathic abilities let her feel others' needs before they're expressed
• Amara's constant giving leads to burnout and a moment of reckoning when she loses her job
• In a dream, she meets her higher self who teaches her that "love isn't something you earn, it's what you are"
• Four feminine archetypes emerge representing different aspects of empowered leadership: The Soulful Architect, Inspired Achiever, Creative Alchemist, and Empowered Catalyst
• Amara confronts her people-pleasing shadow and integrates it through compassion
• She awakens to build a business rooted in her truth rather than martyrdom
• The narrative invites listeners to examine their own patterns of giving from depletion versus overflow

Join our Conscious Creators Circle Facebook group to guess which Enneagram type Amara represents and win prizes including an intuitive reading. Also, don't miss James Wedmore's free training series "The Rise of the Digital CEO" starting May 29th - I'll provide a free private group for those who sign up to help launch their passive income business online.


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Welcome back to the Soma Flow podcast. I'm very excited I get to do what I like to do, which is have fun, play games and educate people at the same time. My name is Tabitha, I'm an intuitive coach and today I have a new character for you on our journey to a purpose-led career. So, if you haven't done so already, go join my conscious creators circle and you get to guess which Enneagram type I'm talking about. There are prizes involved, so you could receive a full reading with me, an intuitive reading on your career, your love, life, purpose, whatever you want information on. And for the grand prize, you have to stay tuned to listen for what that is by the end of the episode. So, with that said, we are going to listen to a story about love, about love.

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Today's story is one of love, the kind that exhausts you and the kind that heals you. It's about a woman named Amara and the day she woke up from a life of over giving. Let's drop in place a hand on your heart, breathe, feel into the space where love has always lived. Amara had a gift she could feel what others needed before they said a word. She called it empathy. Her friends called it magic. Her boss called it indispensable, but her body called it magic. Her boss called it indispensable, but her body called it exhaustion. She was the helper, the peacemaker, the let-me-fix-that-for-you girl. She made everyone feel seen. But when she looked in the mirror she barely recognized herself. One day, after solving yet another emotional crisis at work, she sat alone in the break room and felt the strangest thing. Nothing Is this, all I am, she wondered. A vessel for everyone else's pain. That day, something cracked and the light started leaking. In A week later, amara got a call.

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Her department was being restructured. She'd been so appreciated, they said, but her role no longer needed. She smiled politely, said all the right things, but when she hung up she felt a strange relief wash over her. What if this wasn't the end? What if it was my invitation home? She didn't know who she was without being needed, but she was about to find out.

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That night, amara had a dream A sacred garden, lush, wild and fragrant. In the center stood a glowing figure wrapped in rose gold light. It was her higher self, the heart-centered connector. She reached out, placing a hand over Amara's heart. You've given so much beautiful one, she whispered. But love isn't something you earn. It's what you are. You are here to heal the world through love-fueled leadership, not by rescuing others, but by embodying your own worth. Amara exhaled For the first time. She felt her own love return to her. The garden shimmered. Out of the light, four feminine figures emerged Her inner counsel, her hidden strengths.

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Clothed in white and gold, the soulful architect stepped forward. She held a scroll of sacred structure your heart is a compass, but your mission needs scaffolding. You're here to architect a better world with aligned systems and soul-led boundaries. She handed Amara the scroll, a blueprint of a business built on values, draped in radiant copper and sunlight. Draped in radiant copper and sunlight.

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The inspired achiever stepped forward. Her energy electric. You don't have to hide. You are meant to be seen. You are meant to be authentic. It is your magnetism. You're here to inspire others by letting your soul shine in success. She gave Amara a mirror, not to judge, but to see her brilliance clearly Wrapped in deep indigo and velvet.

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The creative alchemist steps forward holding a paintbrush dripping with stars. You've carried so much emotional weight, but your pain is sacred material. You're here to alchemize it into beauty and weave truth into everything you offer. She placed the paintbrush in Amara's hand. Permission to turn feeling into art. With eyes like lightning and presence like thunder, the empowered catalyst steps forward. She wore a cloak of black and crimson. Stop shrinking love. Your softness is not weakness, it's power. You're here to be a force of soul-led transformation. She gave Amara a key to unlock her own bold voice. Together they surrounded her, not as rescuers but as reflections of her soul strength.

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But as the light grew, a shadow crept in Tired eyes, tight smile, holding a tray of everyone else's needs. It was the pleaser, the part of Amara who thought love must be earned. If you stop giving, you'll be abandoned. If you speak your truth, you'll hurt people. Amara looked at her and saw herself younger, afraid, desperate to be enough. She stepped forward. Thank you for protecting me, she whispered. But I don't need to be loved for what I do. I am already loved. She wrapped her arms around the pleaser and as she did, the shadow softened, then melted into light.

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Amara woke with tears on her cheeks and clarity in her chest. She didn't go back to fixing, she didn't rush to be useful. She paused, listened, let herself be filled and then she began building a business rooted in her truth, a sacred space where clients felt seen. Because she had finally seen herself. She became a soul guide, leading not from martyrdom but from embodiment. Not love in depletion, but love in overflow.

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Now you, love, place your hand on your heart, close your eyes and ask yourself when have I been giving to be safe instead of receiving to be full? What would change if I trusted that I am enough, even when I'm not needed? What sacred business, what soul-led service might rise if I led from wholeness. Instead of hustle, breathe into it. Feel your truth return. You don't need to breathe your word. You are the word. Let love come home to you. You are the heart-centered connector. Your presence is a gift. Your truth is a healing. Your love is a transmission. Lead from that and your work will become medicine for the world. If amara's story felt like your own, I invite you to keep listening, because every episode in this season is a mirror and you, my love, are ready to see your true reflection. If this story stirred something in you, or if you found yourself resonating with Amara's journey, her superpowers or even her shadow, I have a fun invitation for you.

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Head over to our private Facebook community. It's called the Conscious Creator Circle how to build aligned income with digital products. You'll find a post there asking which Enneagram type do you think Amara is? Drop your guess in the comments. But here's the thing you can only share your answer inside the group. It's our sacred space for deep discussion, intuitive business alignment and transformational support. The link is down below and while you're there, I want to make sure that you do not miss this.

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James Wedmore, who is the coach who taught me how to build my online business, is offering a free training series, the Rise of the Digital CEO, starting May 29th. It's an absolute must if you're ready to scale your business the intuitive way, with soul-aligned strategy. This guy gave me the user manual for an online business and some people run and go really fast. I chose the slow, steady path. Chose or I had to work through all of my BS first. I had to work through all my BS first, and that's what I want to help other people do, because it wasn't the business that was the problem, it was how I felt in the business. So James is going to give you basically the user manual and if you end up signing up because you're like yep, this resonates with me, I'm going to provide a free, private group for the people who sign up so that they can launch their passive income business online.

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I promise you, it was all mental, emotional, physical. Those were the blocks. It wasn't that I wasn't smart enough, it wasn't that I didn't have enough knowledge or information. It was the inside blocks that were blocking me the most. That's why intuition will help get you around that and the superconscious recode will help remove those blocks so fast. So if you feel ready and you feel called to do something bigger with your life and bigger doesn't have to be like a multimillion dollar business, maybe you just want like an extra $5,000 a month because who doesn't Join my group we're really going to tackle this this summer and I'm excited because I feel very I feel very seven in seven fashion very enthusiastic about what's coming this summer. So I hope you have a wonderful day. Don't forget, join the group, watch the Rise of the Digital CEO series and discover how to create from within, not from what you should be doing. I'll see you inside. Have a great day.

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